I'm a divorced woman that was greatly affected by that experience. Whether I'm in a better position or not remains to be seen, but it has obviously changed my life. I certainly keep in better shape and take better care of myself now. However, the largest change has been with my sex drive. I'm much more sexually driven and have a certain fetish to be with married men or men that already have girlfriends. For some reason, that really turns me on. I guess the divorce has something to do with that.