I'm a divorced woman that was greatly affected by that experience. Whether I'm in a better position or not remains to be seen, but it has obviously changed my life. I certainly keep in better shape and take better care of myself now. However, the largest change has been with my sex drive. I'm much more sexually driven and have a certain fetish to be with married men or men that already have girlfriends. For some reason, that really turns me on. I guess the divorce has something to do with that. I'm looking for is for men who can keep it descreet or have to keep it discreet are what interest me right now.