My search resumes. I’m stuck for the time being in a loveless, sexless marriage, divorce is not an option at this time. So rather than run the risk of catching feelings for a FWB, why not just go for the whole thing at the outset? So here are some important facts you need to know about what I want:
1). I am NOT looking to change your situation. No one’s going to ask you to leave anyone, no matter how serious we may get.
2). I do not have sex or fool around on the first meeting. I’m looking for something of quality. Do not try to force this issue. Show respect.
3). I am super discreet and super passionate. That being said, My biggest sexual organ is my brain. I require mental stimulation and contact between our encounters. So if you’re a message only every once in a while kind of guy, I’m not the one for you. No/little contact leads to boredom on my end. And if I get bored, well, that’s never good.
4). I’m looking for something deeper than a FWB, so if you’re looking for an effbuddy, please move along